Bringing a civil partnership to an end involves a court process which formally dissolves your legal connection as partners.
The law for same-sex couples has evolved considerably over the past few years, so you should check that your relationship is treated as a civil partnership under UK law (rather than a marriage or a co-habiting relationship). If you are in a multi-national relationship, or have entered into an overseas relationship, or are not living in the UK, you may also need to check that the UK court has the power to dissolve your civil partnership.
If you are eligible to apply, you will have to satisfy the UK court that your relationship has irretrievably broken down and that you can satisfy one of the specific grounds for dissolution which are:
Adultery is not a ground for dissolving a civil partnership, although in practice if your partner has had sexual relations with someone else this can be used as an example of unreasonable behaviour.
Some couples prefer to wait until they have been separated for two years so that a dissolution petition can be filed without giving detail about the difficulties between them. However, there are ways of handling unreasonable behaviour petitions sensitively for those who wish to dissolve a civil partnership amicably before they have been separated for two years.
It generally takes at least 3-4 months to dissolve a civil partnership and the process is usually completed on paper, with the judge looking at the papers sitting in private at court. It is very unusual to be asked to attend court. If there are financial or children issues to resolve, these are dealt with in separate proceedings which often run alongside the dissolution process. Find out more about resolving financial issues and resolving children disputes.
One partner (the petitioner) must prepare the dissolution petition and send it to the court, together with the court fee. It is important to draft the petition correctly or the court will return it. The petition should give details about the grounds for dissolution. It should also say whether the petitioner intends to make any financial claims (which must be dealt with in separate proceedings) and whether the petitioner wishes to claim the costs from his or her partner (which is possible where the petition is based on the other partner's unreasonable behaviour). The issue of costs is a sensitive one and it is often sensible to try and resolve this in advance by negotiation.
Once received, the court will issue the petition (stamp it and give it a case number) and send the petition and an acknowledgement of service form to the other civil partner (the respondent).
The respondent needs to complete the acknowledgement of service form, and send it back to the court within seven days. The response should indicate whether the respondent accepts that the civil partnership should come to an end, or wishes to defend the petition (or to file a cross petition). Most petitions are undefended, because if one party wants the civil partnership to come to an end it is not usually realistic to argue that it should continue. If the dissolution is undefended, this does not mean that all the financial or children issues are agreed; these issues will be dealt with separately. The respondent should also say whether he or she agrees to pay the costs, to make a contribution toward them, or disputes paying any costs.
The petitioner then completes a court form called a statement in support of the petition. He or she files this with the court (attaching the respondent's acknowledgment of service) and asks the court to set a date for the conditional order. A judge will look at the application and decide whether the procedure has been completed correctly and whether the grounds for dissolution are satisfied. If so, the judge will set a date for a conditional order. When a conditional order is made, this means that the dissolution will be made final unless the respondent shows a reason (within six weeks) why it should not.
Six weeks and one day after the date of the conditional order, the petitioner can apply for a final order which formally brings the civil partnership to an end. If the petitioner does not apply, the respondent can apply three months after the date of the conditional order.